“Whose Body Is It, Anyway?

  In any situation where a rape has accrued, it needs to be told. To be silence is good which is what most women have been taught to believe. You are the good little girl if you would just be quiet when someone violates your body, and everyone will love you for it.  Isolation in violent situations precedes more violence and eventually death.  I think that younger girls are ignorant to their surrounding, and they ignore the potential for death associated with this kind of violence. Older women who act out sexually, to gain attention are usually not really highly sexual beans, but they use sex to gain security in food, shelter, cars, jewelry,  and the “big-one” unconditional LOVE, which they almost never really get out of the deal. 

Selling out your self-respect, for a false since of confidence, and hope is not going to come to you through promiscuity, but death will. The potential for sexual violence crimes are high off the chart, for kids in school, because of the roaring hormones that are out of control without out proper teaching on how to control themselves, they just holds out the welcome mate.  I personally had a bad intimate experience in my school, and other ones of my friends had also. It all starts from just an innocence of a teen bullying other students, and eventually domination comes through the confidence of power over the person that the violence was directed to. 

Things aren’t always as innocent as they appear.  In play is where most violence introduces itself, and it really starts there. Innocent play can eventually becomes a violence act to over power in all.  Teaching kids how to respect others kids, should be their first lesson in life, but to, exceed teaching them about sex. 

Girls are not a piece of meat to be cut into pieces, and distributed out to every man that smells satisfaction coming.  I think, secrets that harm you are not secrets at all! Its best if we told someone that can help us find a way to acknowledge the wrong that was done to us.  This is your right, as a female, not to be caved into hibernation for the rest of your life because of your gender, or hunted by a predator where you are only let out when you need to eat or bath. To survive in life, and have your pleasure is a personal thing, and no one else’s needs, there should supersede your own.   
Rosetta Nesbitt